Happy People Tend to Have This Personality Trait
This story originally appeared on
Happiness — or , as academics call it — is largely a matter of the situations that you put yourself into.
, people who rank high in agreeableness put themselves into happier situations than everybody else.
It’s a part of “emotion regulation,” write authors Konrad Bresin of the University of Illinois and Michael D. Robinson of North Dakota State University.
One of , agreeableness is , or, put more negatively, it’s a measure of how much you need to be liked by the people around you.
“The more agreeable someone is, the more likely they are to be trusting, helpful and compassionate,” , while “disagreeable people are cold and suspicious of others, and they’re less likely to cooperate.”
In a series of experiments, Bresin and Robinson .
- In one experiment, participants were asked to look at a series of positive and negative images, spending as much time as they’d like with each image. Most people spent more time with the negative images — except for the agreeable folks.
- In another experiment, participants were asked if they’d like to have an experience that’s more or less positive or negative — an upbeat or a slow song, a documentary about a celebrity or about government corruption, a talk about baking cakes or dissecting a body. , “high agreeableness [participants] showed a strong preference for the positive: anthems, nation’s sweethearts, and shortbreads.”
In other words, pleasant people like pleasant things.
But problems can come with such pleasantries.
Research suggests that . Disagreeable women, , earn 5% more than their nicely behaved peers.
Similarly, Malcolm Gladwell . Prime example: IKEA founder Ingvar Kamprad — he cares about selling furniture.
Happiness — or , as academics call it — is largely a matter of the situations that you put yourself into.
, people who rank high in agreeableness put themselves into happier situations than everybody else.
It’s a part of “emotion regulation,” write authors Konrad Bresin of the University of Illinois and Michael D. Robinson of North Dakota State University.